tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87579307934092820112024-03-21T06:27:24.325-07:00SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL PEOPLEzuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-22684570296978454672024-03-21T06:26:00.000-07:002024-03-21T06:26:31.318-07:00How To Train Your Brain<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Training your brain is crucial for overall cognitive health and enhancing various mental faculties. Here are some effective ways to train your brain:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgu_L2nE0OvjY47VjPrUH516ZdLg7ijts5X4erdRgiUDdJ1x0KH5G56LnTqc-7jH6M9UlhPijqqjZZ7YGvQd5mQxYk1vYDtVk6XfZFCV3t2QPrpWLVXu6-Xrwrnpi9h92m0jlMNYh8uyHqXmXqVN7va2fdFkOM6Y0jAKfi8jCOxBuNRs-XorcaUlFKDd10" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="631" data-original-width="563" height="585" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgu_L2nE0OvjY47VjPrUH516ZdLg7ijts5X4erdRgiUDdJ1x0KH5G56LnTqc-7jH6M9UlhPijqqjZZ7YGvQd5mQxYk1vYDtVk6XfZFCV3t2QPrpWLVXu6-Xrwrnpi9h92m0jlMNYh8uyHqXmXqVN7va2fdFkOM6Y0jAKfi8jCOxBuNRs-XorcaUlFKDd10=w522-h585" width="522" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />1. Mental Exercises: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Engage in activities that challenge your brain, such as puzzles, sudoku, crosswords, or brain training apps. These activities stimulate different areas of the brain and improve cognitive function.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Learn Something New: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Continuously learning new skills or subjects can create new neural pathways and improve cognitive flexibility. Whether it's a new language, musical instrument, or hobby, learning stimulates the brain and keeps it active.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Physical Exercise: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Regular exercise not only benefits your body but also your brain. Physical activity increases blood flow to the brain, promotes the growth of new neurons, and improves overall brain function.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Healthy Diet: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">A balanced diet rich in nutrients, antioxidants, and omega-3 fatty acids is essential for brain health. Foods like fatty fish, fruits, vegetables, nuts, and whole grains support brain function and protect against cognitive decline.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Adequate Sleep: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Quality sleep is vital for cognitive function, memory consolidation, and overall brain health. Aim for 7-9 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night to allow your brain to recharge and repair.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Mindfulness and Meditation: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Practicing mindfulness and meditation can improve focus, reduce stress, and enhance overall brain function. Regular meditation has been shown to increase gray matter in the brain regions associated with memory and emotional regulation.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Social Interaction: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Engage in meaningful social interactions to stimulate your brain and maintain emotional well-being. Socializing helps prevent feelings of isolation, reduces stress, and promotes cognitive function.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">8. Brain-Boosting Supplements: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Some supplements, such as omega-3 fatty acids, vitamin B12, and Ginkgo biloba, may support brain health and cognitive function. However, it's essential to consult with a healthcare professional before taking any supplements.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">9. Challenging Mental Tasks: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Take on tasks that require concentration and problem-solving skills, such as learning a complex new skill, tackling a difficult project, or engaging in strategic games like chess or strategy-based video games.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">10. Stay Curious and Stimulated: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Keep your brain engaged and curious by exploring new ideas, concepts, and experiences. Read books, attend lectures, travel to new places, or engage in intellectually stimulating conversations to keep your brain sharp and adaptable.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Consistency is key when it comes to brain training. Incorporate these practices into your daily routine to maintain cognitive health and unlock your brain's full potential.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-82565254235989568592024-03-21T06:21:00.000-07:002024-03-21T06:21:58.964-07:00The Habits of Happy People<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The habits of happy people can vary, but there are several common practices that tend to contribute to their overall well-being and contentment:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgu00qBWi7gV7FdqHU7Ty4NunPW3nxlg1NVxuD_rlvsZ_j6ZtRQB6iXbter2qQpSQfnACdRX5QV6Elm2tAurSoDIE5H0CFP715xleutYH2yov1dRXUwvtrrsT7IVAiHqN36-7GD51azah4rgQrDSskho6PkJ5OEBdK1D5KqqCQ_QrErpLlz3910GJkpOcY" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="573" data-original-width="564" height="419" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgu00qBWi7gV7FdqHU7Ty4NunPW3nxlg1NVxuD_rlvsZ_j6ZtRQB6iXbter2qQpSQfnACdRX5QV6Elm2tAurSoDIE5H0CFP715xleutYH2yov1dRXUwvtrrsT7IVAiHqN36-7GD51azah4rgQrDSskho6PkJ5OEBdK1D5KqqCQ_QrErpLlz3910GJkpOcY=w412-h419" width="412" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />1. Gratitude: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Happy individuals often cultivate a sense of gratitude for the people, experiences, and blessings in their lives. They regularly acknowledge and appreciate what they have rather than focusing on what they lack.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Mindfulness: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Practicing mindfulness involves being fully present in the moment, without judgment. Happy people often engage in mindfulness techniques such as meditation or deep breathing exercises to reduce stress and increase awareness.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Physical Activity: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Regular exercise is linked to improved mood and overall happiness. Happy people prioritize physical activity, whether it's through structured workouts, outdoor activities, or simply incorporating movement into their daily routines.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Healthy Relationships: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Maintaining strong connections with friends, family, and loved ones is essential for happiness. Happy individuals invest time and effort into nurturing meaningful relationships, fostering trust, communication, and mutual support.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Purposeful Living: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Having a sense of purpose or meaning in life contributes significantly to happiness. Happy people often set goals, pursue passions, and engage in activities that align with their values and aspirations.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Self-Care: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Prioritizing self-care is crucial for happiness. This includes taking care of one's physical, emotional, and mental well-being through activities such as adequate rest, healthy eating, relaxation techniques, and engaging in hobbies or activities that bring joy.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Adaptability: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Happy individuals tend to be resilient and adaptable in the face of challenges. They approach setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning, maintaining a positive outlook even during difficult times.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">8. Acts of Kindness: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Giving back to others through acts of kindness and generosity can boost happiness levels. Happy people often engage in altruistic behaviors, whether it's volunteering, helping a friend in need, or simply offering a kind word or gesture.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">9. Optimism: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Cultivating a positive mindset and optimistic outlook on life can significantly impact happiness. Happy individuals focus on the good in any situation, maintain hope for the future, and believe in their ability to overcome obstacles.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">10. Work-Life Balance: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Balancing work, personal life, and leisure activities is essential for overall well-being. Happy people prioritize time for relaxation, hobbies, and spending quality time with loved ones, ensuring a harmonious balance between work and other aspects of life.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">By incorporating these habits into their daily lives, individuals can cultivate greater happiness, fulfillment, and overall well-being.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-53287519441201629162024-03-21T06:16:00.000-07:002024-03-21T06:16:10.244-07:00The Biggest Time Wasters<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Improving time management involves not only adopting beneficial practices but also recognizing and avoiding habits or behaviors that hinder productivity. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Here are several things to avoid to enhance time management:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEif8b4mFTmiS9THiqAKzXn3cOkWE5wH3L5549M_JpM4ZAJPZdNZUjuIjxni9Zc9CFaj0GyOzzNXLXBHmwy14V_uh-GKWil0ExSde0ehP1ZABf-0MqiXfF-QvTg4C2Z8o5BfvbjLLExHOoKRA0fNYOa59Jt98sAUTdOYKdK4GkDc_9tslE99vZ7vfjek0xM" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="581" data-original-width="564" height="456" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEif8b4mFTmiS9THiqAKzXn3cOkWE5wH3L5549M_JpM4ZAJPZdNZUjuIjxni9Zc9CFaj0GyOzzNXLXBHmwy14V_uh-GKWil0ExSde0ehP1ZABf-0MqiXfF-QvTg4C2Z8o5BfvbjLLExHOoKRA0fNYOa59Jt98sAUTdOYKdK4GkDc_9tslE99vZ7vfjek0xM=w443-h456" width="443" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />1. Procrastination: </span><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Delaying tasks can lead to unnecessary stress and a backlog of work. Avoid putting off important tasks by breaking them down into smaller, manageable steps and tackling them one at a time.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Multitasking: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Contrary to popular belief, multitasking often leads to decreased productivity and quality of work. Focus on completing one task at a time to achieve better results efficiently.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Overcommitting: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Saying yes to every request or task can spread you too thin, leading to burnout and subpar results. Learn to prioritize your commitments and say no when necessary to maintain a healthy workload.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Lack of Planning: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Failing to plan your day or week can result in aimless wandering and wasted time. Take a few minutes each morning or the night before to outline your tasks and goals, ensuring a clear direction for the day.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Ignoring Breaks: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Constantly working without breaks can lead to fatigue and decreased productivity. Incorporate regular breaks into your schedule to rest and recharge, allowing you to return to tasks with renewed focus and energy.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Unnecessary Distractions: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Identify common distractions such as social media, email notifications, or noisy environments and take steps to minimize them during work hours. Consider using productivity tools or apps to block distracting websites or set designated times for checking emails.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Poor Time Estimation: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Underestimating the time required to complete tasks can lead to unrealistic expectations and time management issues. Practice accurately estimating task durations based on past experiences to allocate your time effectively.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">8. Perfectionism: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Striving for perfection in every task can result in excessive time spent on minor details, causing delays in overall progress. Aim for excellence rather than perfection and learn to prioritize tasks based on their importance and impact.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">9. Failure to Delegate: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Trying to do everything yourself can lead to overwhelm and inefficiency. Delegate tasks to others when possible, trusting their abilities and freeing up your time to focus on higher-priority activities.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">10. Lack of Review and Reflection: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Neglecting to review your progress and reflect on your time management habits can hinder improvement. Regularly evaluate your productivity and identify areas for growth, making adjustments as needed to optimize your time management strategies.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">By avoiding these common pitfalls and adopting effective time management practices, you can enhance your productivity and achieve your goals more efficiently.</span></p></div>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-15390126452605817522024-03-21T06:07:00.000-07:002024-03-21T06:08:20.868-07:00How To Find You Passion In Life<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Finding your ikigai, a Japanese concept that translates to "a reason for being" or "a reason to wake up in the morning," involves understanding what brings you joy, what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Here's a step-by-step guide to help you find your ikigai:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgeDt58x8cQhO_f-ZeyTF3tjJT0j7CGtTvplg_vUhQ7zADN0GovQ9t6u0jItxgfDQJhYkNpQzdsKLirmHdHPa1rm2OAnW9Ovn8a4JoDFiLXk4PYokyDVMFxI1dzlJ5wEveQmFHq-zNTSALf449gLT6pu_6_3SNWLjrB-9RLoxu0qUa8LYAhMErK22MUGCI" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="687" data-original-width="432" height="621" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgeDt58x8cQhO_f-ZeyTF3tjJT0j7CGtTvplg_vUhQ7zADN0GovQ9t6u0jItxgfDQJhYkNpQzdsKLirmHdHPa1rm2OAnW9Ovn8a4JoDFiLXk4PYokyDVMFxI1dzlJ5wEveQmFHq-zNTSALf449gLT6pu_6_3SNWLjrB-9RLoxu0qUa8LYAhMErK22MUGCI=w391-h621" width="391" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">1. Reflect on What You Love: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Take some time to think about activities or interests that truly bring you joy and fulfillment. What activities make you lose track of time? What hobbies or pursuits energize you?</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Identify Your Skills and Strengths: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Assess your strengths and skills. What are you naturally good at? What do others often commend you for? These could be skills developed through education, work experience, or personal interests.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Consider What the World Needs: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Think about how you can contribute positively to the world. What issues or problems do you feel passionate about solving? How can your skills and talents address these needs?</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Explore What You Can Be Paid For: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Explore potential career paths or avenues where you can turn your passions and skills into sources of income. Research different industries, job roles, or entrepreneurial opportunities that align with your interests and strengths.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Find the Intersection: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Your ikigai lies at the intersection of what you love, what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. Look for activities or pursuits that fulfill all these criteria. It may take some time and experimentation to find the perfect balance.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Experiment and Iterate: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Don't be afraid to try new things and experiment with different paths. Your ikigai may evolve over time as you gain new experiences and insights. Stay open to learning and adapting along the way.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Seek Feedback and Reflection: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Share your thoughts and ideas with trusted friends, mentors, or advisors. Their feedback and perspectives can provide valuable insights as you navigate your journey to find your ikigai.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">8. Stay True to Yourself: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Ultimately, finding your ikigai is about aligning your passions, strengths, values, and aspirations. Stay true to yourself and what truly matters to you, even if it means taking unconventional paths or challenging the status quo.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">By following these steps and staying committed to self-discovery and growth, you can uncover your ikigai and live a more purposeful and fulfilling life.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-40518099645957455082024-03-21T06:01:00.000-07:002024-03-21T06:03:07.936-07:00Japanese Concept of Ikigai<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Ikigai is a Japanese concept that roughly translates to "reason for being" or "purpose in life." It's the intersection of what you love, what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhgu1UfIzZv_hs5q3u3qIeKOEO5GQ8MJtt5UyPVR4_KTBDL3wqTjKXOdxu1xKC95_PUMZ3bCciy7-2mOn0542Go3_iDOn7GPSTuTFbQx8e2O6leTfZI6oYoNAhVBz7LzB8K_mlkESUwqs9GirPrzVPBlh11kuacitFjeAddJxDIT5UQvQs7ZFyE23y7lBc" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="539" data-original-width="563" height="462" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhgu1UfIzZv_hs5q3u3qIeKOEO5GQ8MJtt5UyPVR4_KTBDL3wqTjKXOdxu1xKC95_PUMZ3bCciy7-2mOn0542Go3_iDOn7GPSTuTFbQx8e2O6leTfZI6oYoNAhVBz7LzB8K_mlkESUwqs9GirPrzVPBlh11kuacitFjeAddJxDIT5UQvQs7ZFyE23y7lBc=w483-h462" width="483" /></a></div><br /><br /><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The concept suggests that finding balance among these four elements leads to a fulfilling and meaningful life. Here's a breakdown:</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">1. What you love (your passion): </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">This refers to the activities and pursuits that bring you joy, fulfillment, and a sense of meaning. It's about identifying the things that genuinely excite and inspire you.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. What you're good at (your vocation): </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">This involves recognizing your skills, strengths, and talents. It's about understanding what you excel at and what comes naturally to you.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. What the world needs (your mission): </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">This pertains to the needs, problems, and challenges in the world that resonate with you. It's about identifying how you can contribute positively to society and make a difference.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. What you can be paid for (your profession): </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">This relates to finding a way to monetize your passions, skills, and contributions. It's about identifying opportunities to earn a living while pursuing your ikigai.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">When you find the intersection of these four elements, you're said to have discovered your ikigai—a sense of purpose and fulfillment that propels you forward in life. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">It's important to note that ikigai is not a destination but a journey of self-discovery and continuous growth. It requires introspection, exploration, and a willingness to align your actions with your values and aspirations.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-60636800968731563522024-03-21T05:54:00.000-07:002024-03-21T05:56:45.828-07:00You Don't Have to Be Good at Something to Enjoy It<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The statement "You don't have to be good at something to enjoy it" speaks to the idea that enjoyment and proficiency are not always directly correlated. Here's an elaboration on this concept:</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhezo8f9dhmuUKYYyMQtaQ3PRrqgKfZOnHr-Cep1ugNP2add7G_PFHB_sOZuyvlDVWOzc3fI1VKnrEVEPzjUnVNiqhQVwcS2imTtOPPtZ1nGkVV_S7Kc4d9QdrIiVATxqvKiXVp4LaYGF7NeW0aS85dJRuTOmBIarjWRMD4u_jnEE2VbMy4IJo__uHFZr8" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="863" data-original-width="735" height="545" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhezo8f9dhmuUKYYyMQtaQ3PRrqgKfZOnHr-Cep1ugNP2add7G_PFHB_sOZuyvlDVWOzc3fI1VKnrEVEPzjUnVNiqhQVwcS2imTtOPPtZ1nGkVV_S7Kc4d9QdrIiVATxqvKiXVp4LaYGF7NeW0aS85dJRuTOmBIarjWRMD4u_jnEE2VbMy4IJo__uHFZr8=w463-h545" width="463" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /><br /></span><p></p><span style="font-size: large;">1. Intrinsic enjoyment: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Many activities bring joy simply through the act of doing them, regardless of skill level. For example, someone might enjoy singing in the shower or doodling in a sketchbook without aiming to become a professional singer or artist.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Exploration and discovery: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Engaging in new activities or hobbies can be enjoyable in itself, even if you're not particularly skilled at them initially. The process of learning and improving can be fulfilling, but the enjoyment doesn't solely rely on reaching mastery.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Relaxation and stress relief: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Some activities serve as outlets for relaxation and stress relief, offering mental and emotional benefits regardless of expertise. For instance, gardening, cooking, or hiking can be enjoyable leisure activities without requiring exceptional skills.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Social connections: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Participating in activities with others can be enjoyable for the social aspect, irrespective of individual proficiency. Board games, sports, or group fitness classes are examples where the enjoyment often comes from shared experiences rather than individual performance.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Personal expression: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Creative pursuits such as writing, painting, or crafting can be enjoyable forms of self-expression, regardless of technical skill. The act of creation itself can bring satisfaction and fulfillment, independent of external validation or recognition.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Mindfulness and presence: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Engaging fully in an activity, whether it's as simple as taking a walk or as complex as playing a musical instrument, can foster mindfulness and presence in the moment. Enjoyment arises from being fully immersed in the experience rather than achieving a specific outcome.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Perspective shift: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Embracing the process over the outcome can lead to a shift in perspective, where enjoyment is found in the journey rather than the destination. This mindset allows for greater freedom to experiment, make mistakes, and ultimately derive pleasure from the learning process itself.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Overall, while mastery and skill can enhance enjoyment in certain pursuits, they're not prerequisites for finding fulfillment in life's many activities. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Embracing the joy of simply participating, exploring, and being present can enrich our lives in meaningful ways, regardless of our level of expertise.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-19274247031992373122024-03-21T05:49:00.000-07:002024-03-21T05:49:20.237-07:00What You See In Others Exists In You<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The statement "what you see in others exists in you" reflects the idea that our perceptions of others are often colored by our own experiences, beliefs, and emotions. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Here's a breakdown of this concept:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgsNrlHlRi4OkqbczJSdXIawNcap3luXWpTojrU97VPXWDXTl-w-HPTDTgK8wHG17SuXIaTa2SbxP3XuplLn2rKlornJaaDcUChtbwUpC4D_KYNzgLsk-sj11rcGafjYgyi42Xw0CksENct2QiMwdzpTzzeHyKt4SS1c8hXFYNVsoKnIJWb5UtrK59gQEs" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="620" data-original-width="564" height="412" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgsNrlHlRi4OkqbczJSdXIawNcap3luXWpTojrU97VPXWDXTl-w-HPTDTgK8wHG17SuXIaTa2SbxP3XuplLn2rKlornJaaDcUChtbwUpC4D_KYNzgLsk-sj11rcGafjYgyi42Xw0CksENct2QiMwdzpTzzeHyKt4SS1c8hXFYNVsoKnIJWb5UtrK59gQEs=w374-h412" width="374" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />1. Projection: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Sometimes, what we notice or judge in others can actually be a reflection of our own inner thoughts, feelings, or qualities that we may not be fully aware of or are unwilling to acknowledge. For example, if someone frequently criticizes others for being arrogant, it might indicate that they struggle with their own feelings of arrogance or insecurity.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Empathy and Understanding: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">On a more positive note, when we recognize certain traits or behaviors in others, it can be because we possess similar traits ourselves. This can foster empathy and understanding, as we can relate to their experiences or perspectives based on our own.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Mirror Effect: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Relationships often serve as mirrors, reflecting back to us aspects of ourselves that we may not readily see. When we encounter people who trigger strong reactions in us, whether positive or negative, it can be an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. For instance, if we admire someone's kindness, it may indicate that we value kindness and possess it ourselves.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Selective Perception: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Our perceptions of others are subjective and influenced by our own biases, beliefs, and past experiences. We tend to notice things in others that resonate with our own internal landscape, while overlooking or downplaying aspects that don't align with our worldview.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Self-Discovery: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Exploring what we see in others can lead to greater self-awareness and personal development. By examining our reactions and responses to others, we can gain insights into our own strengths, weaknesses, values, and aspirations.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">In summary, the statement "what you see in others exists in you" underscores the interconnected nature of human experiences and the importance of introspection in understanding ourselves and our relationships with others. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">It encourages us to look beyond surface judgments and delve deeper into the complexities of our own inner worlds.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-62388800304955760612024-03-21T05:43:00.000-07:002024-03-21T05:50:08.675-07:00The Only Enemy Is Me<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The phrase "the only enemy is me" suggests a profound insight into personal growth and self-awareness. Here's an elaboration on what this might mean:</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhe5NfXpCL2maXl2RWiFYuXH5G0wBiFxgMG0enWC4wEwI457StPnkBkJDrARMMOCLKT7hrpy3AoiTyZsj85yHfRE4d4XXPYI6PQbywR-a5RTd2Y4Q4wPlAEWLiVSe33gdmyw9z9pqnTft806JqHlTxB81wu73BuEZ33L1QceRsF4bNpVal5vtMPZZZpZE4" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="705" data-original-width="564" height="439" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhe5NfXpCL2maXl2RWiFYuXH5G0wBiFxgMG0enWC4wEwI457StPnkBkJDrARMMOCLKT7hrpy3AoiTyZsj85yHfRE4d4XXPYI6PQbywR-a5RTd2Y4Q4wPlAEWLiVSe33gdmyw9z9pqnTft806JqHlTxB81wu73BuEZ33L1QceRsF4bNpVal5vtMPZZZpZE4=w351-h439" width="351" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;">1. Self-Sabotage: </span></span><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><ul><li><span style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;">Often, our own thoughts, actions, and beliefs can be the biggest obstacles to our success and happiness. We might engage in self-sabotaging behaviors such as procrastination, negative self-talk, or fear of failure, which hinder our progress and keep us from reaching our full potential.</span></span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Inner Critic: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">The inner critic, or the voice of self-doubt and self-criticism within us, can be our worst enemy. It constantly undermines our confidence and convinces us that we're not good enough or capable of achieving our goals. Overcoming this inner critic is essential for personal growth and success.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Limiting Beliefs: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Our beliefs about ourselves and the world around us can either empower us or hold us back. If we believe that we're unworthy of success or that we don't deserve happiness, we create limitations that prevent us from pursuing our dreams and living fulfilling lives.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Fear: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Fear is another common enemy that resides within us. Whether it's fear of failure, fear of rejection, or fear of the unknown, it often paralyzes us and keeps us stuck in our comfort zones. Confronting and overcoming our fears is essential for growth and achieving our goals.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Lack of Self-Compassion: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemy by being overly critical and harsh towards ourselves. Practicing self-compassion and treating ourselves with kindness and understanding is crucial for building resilience and overcoming challenges.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Responsibility: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Ultimately, the phrase "the only enemy is me" highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our thoughts, feelings, and actions. Instead of blaming external factors or other people for our shortcomings, we recognize that we have the power to change our circumstances by changing ourselves.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">In essence, acknowledging that the only real obstacle standing in our way is ourselves empowers us to take control of our lives, overcome challenges, and strive for personal growth and fulfillment. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">It's a reminder to cultivate self-awareness, challenge our limiting beliefs, and choose empowerment over self-defeat.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-29590280092702110182024-03-21T05:39:00.000-07:002024-03-21T05:39:26.019-07:00The Most Creative Act Is........<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"> "The most creative act is the act of creating yourself" encapsulates the profound idea that personal growth and self-development are ultimate forms of creativity. Here's an elaboration:</span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi7wXyYEyH62ynTN5NVump9IFaHVkV-7AAbeL8Acz8zlwJOAZg0a4vG6jp8JxHnh6jbY8n3BoODerr85vEQoCnVcrXGbncC47M_5wtCxFxKCNkmlQ006PXdmBQR3GCbia7-wsMHo5-Cs5_y_ahjC0Ik-XzNFeKbO0c_jqq9KuoR0AJ-AtprKTsn8rHeVfQ" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="665" data-original-width="564" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi7wXyYEyH62ynTN5NVump9IFaHVkV-7AAbeL8Acz8zlwJOAZg0a4vG6jp8JxHnh6jbY8n3BoODerr85vEQoCnVcrXGbncC47M_5wtCxFxKCNkmlQ006PXdmBQR3GCbia7-wsMHo5-Cs5_y_ahjC0Ik-XzNFeKbO0c_jqq9KuoR0AJ-AtprKTsn8rHeVfQ=w408-h480" width="408" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />1. Self-Discovery: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Just as an artist explores various mediums and techniques to express themselves, individuals engage in a lifelong process of self-discovery. Understanding one's strengths, weaknesses, passions, and values is akin to an artist experimenting with colors, shapes, and textures.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Shaping Identity: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Like a sculptor molds clay into a masterpiece, individuals shape their identities through experiences, choices, and reflections. This involves not only discovering who you are but also actively shaping who you want to become, much like an artist envisioning and bringing forth their creation.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Freedom of Expression: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Creativity thrives in freedom, and the act of creating oneself allows for the ultimate expression of freedom. It involves breaking free from societal norms, expectations, and limitations to design a life that aligns with one's authentic self.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Continuous Evolution: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Just as a painting undergoes layers of refinement and transformation, individuals are in a constant state of evolution. Embracing change, learning from failures, and adapting to new circumstances are essential aspects of the creative process of self-creation.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Multiplicity of Perspectives: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Just as a piece of art can evoke different emotions and interpretations from viewers, individuals have multifaceted identities with various aspects waiting to be explored and expressed. Embracing this complexity allows for a richer and more vibrant self-creation journey.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Empowerment and Ownership: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">The act of creating yourself empowers individuals to take ownership of their lives and narratives. Instead of being passive recipients of external influences, they become active participants in crafting their destinies.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">In essence, the quote emphasizes the transformative power of self-awareness, intentionality, and agency in shaping one's life. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">It encourages individuals to approach their journey with curiosity, courage, and creativity, recognizing that the canvas of self is infinitely expansive and ripe for exploration and innovation.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-6217808419688760532024-03-21T05:07:00.000-07:002024-03-21T05:24:43.141-07:00The Journey of Growth<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The journey of growth is a multifaceted and dynamic process that encompasses personal, professional, emotional, and spiritual development. It's a path of continuous learning, self-discovery, and improvement that individuals embark upon to realize their full potential and lead fulfilling lives. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Here's a breakdown of key elements involved in this journey:</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhG5wyLPco7T23HRhnXWZx6m-feTQgUcgddeL2u4dy9iLpKiidps54nKutMWFzxC8M4QL7bQPJVA7vREUx8c1l7Uf5Gt19Mfmab5D544UHMFBInSV5H9cmECljWvgXeXT3GSKEaoHewx1EHaGpX9MsY2rg3d8LrOSCErt_nZvIyPM2dEgnB4DA0YShzQuk" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="705" data-original-width="564" height="494" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhG5wyLPco7T23HRhnXWZx6m-feTQgUcgddeL2u4dy9iLpKiidps54nKutMWFzxC8M4QL7bQPJVA7vREUx8c1l7Uf5Gt19Mfmab5D544UHMFBInSV5H9cmECljWvgXeXT3GSKEaoHewx1EHaGpX9MsY2rg3d8LrOSCErt_nZvIyPM2dEgnB4DA0YShzQuk=w395-h494" width="395" /></a></span></div><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: left;">1. Self-awareness: </span><p></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">The journey begins with understanding oneself—identifying strengths, weaknesses, values, beliefs, and aspirations. Self-awareness lays the foundation for growth by enabling individuals to make informed decisions and pursue paths aligned with their authentic selves.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">2. Setting Goals: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Growth often involves setting clear, achievable goals that provide direction and motivation. These goals can be short-term or long-term, ranging from personal development objectives to career milestones and beyond.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">3. Continuous Learning: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Embracing a mindset of lifelong learning is crucial for growth. This involves seeking out new knowledge, skills, and experiences, whether through formal education, self-study, mentorship, or experiential learning.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">4. Embracing Challenges: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Growth rarely occurs within one's comfort zone. It requires stepping outside of familiar territory, taking risks, and confronting challenges head-on. Embracing failure as an opportunity for learning and resilience is a key aspect of this journey.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">5. Adaptability: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">The ability to adapt to change is essential for growth, as the journey is often marked by twists, turns, and unexpected detours. Cultivating flexibility and resilience enables individuals to navigate obstacles and setbacks effectively.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">6. Self-care: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Amidst the pursuit of growth, it's important to prioritize self-care—nurturing physical, mental, and emotional well-being. This includes practices such as regular exercise, mindfulness, healthy nutrition, adequate rest, and seeking support when needed.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">7. Reflection and Evaluation: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Periodic reflection on one's progress and experiences is vital for growth. This involves assessing what has been learned, celebrating achievements, and identifying areas for further improvement or adjustment.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">8. Contributing to Others: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">True growth often involves contributing positively to the lives of others and the broader community. Acts of kindness, mentorship, and social responsibility not only benefit others but also foster personal growth and fulfillment.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">9. Cultivating Gratitude: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Gratitude is a powerful tool for growth, helping individuals appreciate the present moment, acknowledge progress, and maintain a positive outlook amidst challenges.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;">10. Celebrating Milestones: </span></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: large;">Recognizing and celebrating milestones along the journey of growth is important for maintaining motivation and momentum. It serves as a reminder of how far one has come and reinforces the commitment to continued progress.</span></li></ul><p></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Overall, the journey of growth is a deeply personal and transformative process that unfolds over time, shaped by individual experiences, choices, and interactions with the world. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Embracing this journey with intention, resilience, and an open heart can lead to profound personal fulfillment and meaningful contributions to the world.</span></p>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-17992312740226449022014-11-21T02:14:00.001-08:002024-03-16T16:39:27.006-07:00Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is, if there ever was one, a story that could excuse someone </span><span style="font-size: large;">believing that life is meaningless and suicide a reasonable option. Yet </span><span style="font-size: large;">having been lowered into the pits of humanity, Frankl emerged an optimist. </span><span style="font-size: large;">His reasoning was that even in the most terrible circumstances, </span><span style="font-size: large;">people still have the freedom to choose how they see their circumstances </span><span style="font-size: large;">and create meaning out of them.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Logotherapy says that mental health arises when we learn how to close </span><span style="font-size: large;">the gap between what we are and what we could become. But what if we </span><span style="font-size: large;">are yet to identify what we could become? Frankl noted that the modern </span><span style="font-size: large;">person has almost too much freedom to deal with. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">We no longer live </span><span style="font-size: large;">through instinct, but tradition is no guide either. This is the existential </span><span style="font-size: large;">vacuum, in which the frustrated will to meaning is compensated for in </span><span style="font-size: large;">the urge for money, sex, entertainment, even violence. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The meaning of life is the meaning that you decide to give it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">“We lie in the lap of immense intelligence, which makes us receivers of </span><span style="font-size: large;">its truth and organs of its activity. When we discern justice, when we discern </span><span style="font-size: large;">truth, we do nothing of ourselves, but allow a passage to its beams.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">For Emerson, self-reliance was more than the image of a family </span><span style="font-size: large;">carving out a life on the frontier. Though he admired the do-it-yourself </span><span style="font-size: large;">attitude and reveled in nature, Emerson’s frontier, the place of real freedom </span><span style="font-size: large;">and opportunity, was a mental landscape free of mediocrity and </span><span style="font-size: large;">conformity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If we could not examine ourselves and identify our calling, we would </span><span style="font-size: large;">be of little use. Lack of awareness would see us quickly molded into </span><span style="font-size: large;">shape by a society that cared little for the beauty and freedom of the </span><span style="font-size: large;">individual.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is the path most of us take, happy to go along with society’s </span><span style="font-size: large;">program in exchange for a level of status and reasonable material </span><span style="font-size: large;">circumstances. Though we profess to break away from limitations, the </span><span style="font-size: large;">reality is comfort in conformity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Our primary duty is not ultimately to our family, to our job, to our </span><span style="font-size: large;">country, but only that which calls us to do or to be. Too often “duty” </span><span style="font-size: large;">hides a lack of responsibility in taking up a unique path. We can push </span><span style="font-size: large;">aside a calling for some years, choosing obvious sources of money or </span><span style="font-size: large;">satisfaction or a more comfortable situation, but it will eventually </span><span style="font-size: large;">make its claims.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Whatever the pressures, be your own person.</span>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-65172308498194234972014-11-21T01:55:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:47:58.793-07:00Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">The book takes the “impossibilities” in your life and, instead of suggesting </span><span style="font-size: large;">mere goal setting or strong beliefs, shows you how to develop </span><span style="font-size: large;">powerful “knowings” about who you are and what you can do. In this </span><span style="font-size: large;">state of higher awareness, your purpose in life becomes very clear, relationships </span><span style="font-size: large;">become more spiritual, work endeavors begin to “flow,” and </span><span style="font-size: large;">decisions are made with ease.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The thread running though Real Magic is the need to become aware of </span><span style="font-size: large;">our unique purpose in life. People learn or become “enlightened” about </span><span style="font-size: large;">life and themselves in three main ways:</span></div>
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zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-15009538139045012512014-11-21T01:24:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:48:21.439-07:00The Way to Wealth by Benjamin Franklin<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Franklin knew that people were motivated by the prospect of being </span><span style="font-size: large;">rich, but that being frugal was not an especially exciting idea.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">People are always hoping for a windfall, because it lets them off the </span><span style="font-size: large;">hook of being careful about their daily expenses.When people do receive an inheritance or some gain for which they </span><span style="font-size: large;">have not had to work, they imagine a life of leisure.</span><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Diligence and frugality build character as they create wealth.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-34673171360556333382014-11-21T01:15:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:48:37.121-07:00My Life and Work by Henry Ford<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: large;">“Good will is one of the few really important assets of life. A determined </span><span style="font-size: large;">man can win almost anything that he goes after, but unless, in his getting, </span><span style="font-size: large;">he gains good will he has not profited much.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">My Life and Work takes us inside the mind of a person who </span><span style="font-size: large;">managed to change the world, yet who lived in relative </span><span style="font-size: large;">obscurity for the first 40 years of his life. This was a long </span><span style="font-size: large;">time to develop skills, both personal and mechanical, that laid the </span><span style="font-size: large;">foundation for a massive enterprise.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Described by his mother as a born mechanic, the greatest moment in </span><span style="font-size: large;">Ford’s childhood was seeing a road engine, a steam vehicle used to haul </span><span style="font-size: large;">farm machinery. It was the first vehicle he had seen not pulled by horses. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Always tinkering, by age 15 he could fix almost any watch and seriously </span><span style="font-size: large;">considered becoming a watch manufacturer. But the idea of the </span><span style="font-size: large;">“horseless carriage” was too great and, without the support of his </span><span style="font-size: large;">father, Ford began to build one in the workshop he had constructed on </span><span style="font-size: large;">the family farm. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">At 17 he began work as an apprentice machinist, qualifying before </span><span style="font-size: large;">time, and rose through the ranks. In his spare time he worked on a </span><span style="font-size: large;">gasoline engine and dreamed of building a “universal car” that could </span><span style="font-size: large;">transport people cheaply and reliably. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">In his twenties he was inspired by a brief meeting with the inventor </span><span style="font-size: large;">Thomas Edison; despite virtually everyone at the time saying that electricity </span><span style="font-size: large;">was the future, Edison told him to stick at his engine.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Continually refine your thinking power. Imagine something the world </span><span style="font-size: large;">would really need. Make it cheaply as possible and sell it at the </span><span style="font-size: large;">lowest price.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-9341503370186958782014-11-21T00:32:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:48:50.816-07:00Direct from Dell by Michael Dell<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: large;">“Believe in what you are doing. If you’ve got an idea that’s really </span><span style="font-size: large;">powerful, you’ve just got to ignore the people who tell you it won’t </span><span style="font-size: large;">work, and hire people who embrace your vision.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Michael Dell’s first business venture, at 12 years old, arose from </span><span style="font-size: large;">his hobby of philately. He had bought stamps at auction and </span><span style="font-size: large;">realized that stamp sellers made good money, so got together </span><span style="font-size: large;">a catalog of his and his friends’ stamps and sold them via mail order. </span><span style="font-size: large;">He made $2,000. This effort at cutting out the middleman and selling </span><span style="font-size: large;">direct was a taste of things to come.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What Dell also realized was that anyone could buy these components </span><span style="font-size: large;">and make their own machine. Furthermore, the person who sold you a </span><span style="font-size: large;">computer in a store generally didn’t know much about the technology.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Plenty of people told Dell that his direct approach to selling computers </span><span style="font-size: large;">would never work on a large scale. “It’s fun to do things that people </span><span style="font-size: large;">don’t think are possible or likely,” he says. Consequently, questioning </span><span style="font-size: large;">conventional wisdom became a basic element of the culture of the firm. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Dell staff are told to think like entrepreneurs or as if they are owners of </span><span style="font-size: large;">Dell. They are much more likely to take risks. He tells staff: “There’s </span><span style="font-size: large;">no risk in preserving the status quo, but there’s no profit, either.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">At the end of 1986 the company set a goal to achieve $1 billion in sales </span><span style="font-size: large;">by 1992 and to expand internationally. By 1992 it was doing twice this. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Setting a large goal makes you think about how you will achieve it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">“Being on the cover of Fortune doesn’t guarantee you anything,” Dell </span><span style="font-size: large;">says. In the computer industry no one can rest on their laurels; you </span><span style="font-size: large;">need a climate of perpetual change and to be a voracious learner to </span><span style="font-size: large;">foresee what is happening and provide for it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">A simple tip, easily forgotten in the stress of the business arena, but one </span><span style="font-size: large;">that assists in reaching creative solutions. Don’t act from fear; measure </span><span style="font-size: large;">yourself not by others but by an absolute standard of excellence.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The simplest, most uncomplicated way is often the most successful.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-23413302299479805962014-11-21T00:17:00.001-08:002024-03-16T16:49:08.470-07:00Acres of Diamonds by Russell H. Conwell<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">In this tiny book, which is actually a transcript of a hugely popular lecture </span><span style="font-size: large;">that he gave, Conwell relates similar true-life stories about the </span><span style="font-size: large;">folly of going off to find your fortune when it is in your own backyard </span><span style="font-size: large;">or staring you in the face. He suggests that most people are “pygmies </span><span style="font-size: large;">of their possible selves,” because they are not willing to accept, or it </span><span style="font-size: large;">did not occur to them, that they have great untouched powers: “Families </span><span style="font-size: large;">do not credit their own folks with abilities they attribute to other persons. Towns and cities are cursed because their own people talk </span><span style="font-size: large;">them down.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The problem with most people, Conwell says, is that their wealth is </span><span style="font-size: large;">“too near.” You need to develop an open mind to spot the obvious. </span><span style="font-size: large;">This will never happen if you are continually speeding off to the next </span><span style="font-size: large;">opportunity, looking for a greener pasture. Genuine service is simple, </span><span style="font-size: large;">but it may only occur to you what this is when your mind has been </span><span style="font-size: large;">quieted. Without finding some quiet time to yourself you will not be </span><span style="font-size: large;">able to see the wood for the trees. Leave time for meditation and contemplation, </span><span style="font-size: large;">and answers will come.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Another way to start is by thinking about what you need. Chances </span><span style="font-size: large;">are that if you need something, others will too. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">You can’t succeed if you have no interest in people and their needs. </span><span style="font-size: large;">In Conwell’s words, you must make yourself necessary to the world. </span><span style="font-size: large;">What all great people have in common is that they make themselves a </span><span style="font-size: large;">“medium” for good: they make the best products and provide them to </span><span style="font-size: large;">the largest number. This, not taking money at a till, is service.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Whatever you desire is probably close at hand, if you are willing to </span><span style="font-size: large;">open your eyes and your mind.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-24734870455458285142014-11-21T00:06:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:49:29.482-07:00Good to Great by Jim Collins<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: large;">“No matter how dramatic the end result, the good-to-great </span><span style="font-size: large;">transformations never happened in one fell swoop. T</span><span style="font-size: large;">he process resembled </span><span style="font-size: large;">relentlessly pushing a giant heavy flywheel in one direction, turn upon </span><span style="font-size: large;">turn, building momentum until a point of breakthrough, and beyond.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Most great companies enjoyed years of obscurity before their </span><span style="font-size: large;">results compelled the world to look at them. In fact, they </span><span style="font-size: large;">seemed just like any other company until a certain “transition </span><span style="font-size: large;">point” saw them leave the pack behind.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Conventional wisdom has it that if you want to start and build a great </span><span style="font-size: large;">company, you develop the concept to perfection and then hire the best </span><span style="font-size: large;">people you can find. </span><span style="font-size: large;">The benefits of this approach? If you have the right people from the </span><span style="font-size: large;">beginning, they will be able to adapt to any changes in direction or </span><span style="font-size: large;">strategy. You will not have to motivate them because they share the </span><span style="font-size: large;">desire to achieve greatness, and therefore are already motivated. Interestingly, </span><span style="font-size: large;">the great companies pay no more than the merely good; remuneration </span><span style="font-size: large;">is not a big factor in motivating people when they have </span><span style="font-size: large;">something larger than money to aim for.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Great companies are set apart by their reliance on the facts in making </span><span style="font-size: large;">their decisions. They do not rely on management fads or heroic dreams </span><span style="font-size: large;">of greatness to achieve their goals, instead engaging in continual self-assessment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Great companies have a single idea or focus that guides everything they </span><span style="font-size: large;">do. Such concepts may take many years to refine, but once in place can generate enormous success because they are so differentiated. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Walgreens has as its self-defining concept the best, most conveniently </span><span style="font-size: large;">located drugstores, with high profit per customer visit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Technology was rarely mentioned as a major factor for success by </span><span style="font-size: large;">executives in the great companies. It was never a case of “This technology </span><span style="font-size: large;">will make the company,” more like “We could use this to take us </span><span style="font-size: large;">further with what we are doing.” Without an opportunity-spotting culture </span><span style="font-size: large;">in place, other companies chose technology for technology’s sake, </span><span style="font-size: large;">but the exceptional companies only invested in cutting-edge ways of </span><span style="font-size: large;">doing things when it matched up with their larger vision.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Don’t be satisfied with being merely good or excellent. Discover what </span><span style="font-size: large;">it takes to be great.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-72193525934908328922014-11-20T04:20:00.000-08:002024-03-16T16:49:42.742-07:00The Secret of the Ages by Robert Collier<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Collier guides the reader through a mental landscape of three levels: the </span><span style="font-size: large;">conscious, subconscious, and superconscious mind. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The conscious part of your mind you think of as being “you,” but </span><span style="font-size: large;">represents only a small part of the mind. Successful people have a good </span><span style="font-size: large;">relationship between this and their subconscious, which they direct to </span><span style="font-size: large;">create things for them and solve their problems. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The subconscious part </span><span style="font-size: large;">of the brain knows how to do a million things perfectly (including running </span><span style="font-size: large;">your body) and will do them if you let it. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Carl Jung believed that the subconscious (he called it </span><span style="font-size: large;">the unconscious) contained all the knowledge a person had ever gained, </span><span style="font-size: large;">but also the knowledge of every other person who had lived. This part </span><span style="font-size: large;">of the mind is morally neutral, however, and very open to suggestion. If </span><span style="font-size: large;">you give the subconscious thoughts and images of plenty and success, it </span><span style="font-size: large;">will go to work to make them reality. If you give it negative thoughts, it </span><span style="font-size: large;">will create negative circumstances.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Why is visualizing something you desire so important to its attainment? </span><span style="font-size: large;">Everything made in the real world, Collier says, begins as an </span><span style="font-size: large;">image. </span><span style="font-size: large;">The trick is to take idle </span><span style="font-size: large;">image making and render it purposeful and positive. Collier’s “treasure </span><span style="font-size: large;">mapping” technique involves creating a collage with images of the </span><span style="font-size: large;">things you want in life. By looking at these images several times a day, </span><span style="font-size: large;">you prepare the way for their entry into your life.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you have a single powerful purpose, you will have the courage to </span><span style="font-size: large;">act on your ideas.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What does the “thick face” part of the title mean? It means a self-image that </span><span style="font-size: large;">allows us to brush off criticism. She observes that if you are willing to </span><span style="font-size: large;">have people not like you, you will go far. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Chu notes that “the world has a tendency to accept our own judgment </span><span style="font-size: large;">of ourselves.” If you exude self-confidence, people will naturally </span><span style="font-size: large;">want to let you succeed. Self-doubt creates a perception of incompetence.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">While the concept of thick face relates to how others see you, the idea </span><span style="font-size: large;">of black heart is about achieving your ends. </span><span style="font-size: large;">The black-hearted person may seem as if they lack compassion; however, </span><span style="font-size: large;">compassion can be shortsighted. If a boss cannot bring himself to </span><span style="font-size: large;">make a few employees redundant, Chu says, he may witness the collapse </span><span style="font-size: large;">of the whole business. Sometimes, to keep to your goals and achieve a </span><span style="font-size: large;">result that is better overall, you have to be perceived as “bad.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">There are degrees of “thick face, black heartedness.” Some will do anything </span><span style="font-size: large;">to achieve a result, not caring about the effect on others. This is the </span><span style="font-size: large;">black heart of con men and the wicked, who eventually understand that </span><span style="font-size: large;">most of their failures are due to their own character defects. The higher </span><span style="font-size: large;">level of black heart is reached when you are not driven by your shortcomings </span><span style="font-size: large;">or emotions, taking action that is driven by your true spirit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Acknowledge that all human beings are a combination of darkness and </span><span style="font-size: large;">light. The universe is full of opposites requiring an “other” to exist. To </span><span style="font-size: large;">have the necessary drive to live life to the full, you must appreciate and </span><span style="font-size: large;">utilize all aspects of your character. If you like to present yourself as </span><span style="font-size: large;">sugar-coated, you will lose out on any opportunities that may require </span><span style="font-size: large;">you to seem sour or hardened.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">You need to learn that you can be good at the art of deception without </span><span style="font-size: large;">being deceitful. You must also appreciate that sometimes, to </span><span style="font-size: large;">achieve something great and worthy, it is difficult not to bring an element </span><span style="font-size: large;">of deception into your actions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Reclaim the “killer instinct” as a natural part of who you are.</span>zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-59667742583792611832014-11-20T03:34:00.003-08:002024-03-16T16:50:12.143-07:00The Richest Man in Babylon by George S. Clason<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: large;">“Without wisdom, gold is quickly lost by those who have it, but with </span><span style="font-size: large;">wisdom, gold can be secured by those who have it not.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Someone who does not know the laws may enjoy windfalls, but they </span><span style="font-size: large;">are likely to lose the money just as quickly. The five laws not only help </span><span style="font-size: large;">you build wealth, but if you follow them they protect you from losing </span><span style="font-size: large;">what you have built.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In the book’s first story, two friends—a chariot builder and a </span><span style="font-size: large;">musician—reflect on where their working lives have taken them. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Though pleased to have wives and young families, they struggle to </span><span style="font-size: large;">make ends meet and wonder if there could be another way. </span><span style="font-size: large;">The conversation turns to a man they grew up with, now considered </span><span style="font-size: large;">to be the richest man in Babylon. His name is Arkad, and they resolve </span><span style="font-size: large;">to go to see their old friend and seek his advice. They ask Arkad how </span><span style="font-size: large;">fate has come to make him rich. He immediately rebukes them for </span><span style="font-size: large;">assuming that “fate” has contributed anything to his success, telling </span><span style="font-size: large;">them that they have only remained poor “because you have either </span><span style="font-size: large;">failed to learn the laws that govern the building of wealth, or else you </span><span style="font-size: large;">do not observe them.”</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The man agreed, and in the morning revealed this principle: “A part of </span><span style="font-size: large;">all you earn must be yours to keep.” </span><span style="font-size: large;">Living expenses quickly eat up whatever you earn, the money </span><span style="font-size: large;">lender observed, which means that you become a slave to your work </span><span style="font-size: large;">and earn merely to survive. However, by putting aside at least 10 percent </span><span style="font-size: large;">of your earnings and marking that off as “not for expenditure,” </span><span style="font-size: large;">over time this amount builds and starts earning money for you, without </span><span style="font-size: large;">you having to do any work. It matters little how much you start with, </span><span style="font-size: large;">as long as you observe the rule to pay yourself first out of whatever </span><span style="font-size: large;">you earn. You will soon not even notice the absence of this small </span><span style="font-size: large;">amount.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">1 Money comes to those who save.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">2 Money multiplies for those who invest it.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">3 Money stays with the person who entrusts it to wise people.</span><br />
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zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-27269420328109702502014-11-20T01:52:00.001-08:002024-03-16T16:50:30.231-07:00The One Minute Manager by Kenneth Blanchard & Spencer Johnson<br />
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<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Agree on goals (no more than half a dozen) with staff members. </span><span style="font-size: large;">Make sure that each goal is written on a separate piece of paper. </span><span style="font-size: large;">This is “one minute goal setting.” From this point on staff know </span><span style="font-size: large;">exactly what is expected of them and will rarely come to the boss </span><span style="font-size: large;">with problems—they know they are hired to solve them.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Staff should reread the goals frequently as a means of ensuring that </span><span style="font-size: large;">performance matches expectations. They should also provide </span><span style="font-size: large;">detailed records of progress for the managers. This is not so that the </span><span style="font-size: large;">manager can breathe down their neck, but so that he or she can </span><span style="font-size: large;">“catch them doing something right.” This allows for “one minute </span><span style="font-size: large;">praisings,” which provide immediate and specific positive feedback </span><span style="font-size: large;">on actions undertaken.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">If a person has the skills to do something right and it is not done </span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: justify;">right, the manager will provide a “one minute reprimand.” This </span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: justify;">stern rebuke is of the action or behavior, not the person, and the </span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: justify;">manager will express consternation that it is not up to the staff </span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: justify;">member’s usual high standards. After the reprimand, the manager </span><span style="font-size: large; text-align: justify;">reminds the person how much they are valued.</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: large;">One minute goal setting works because “the number one motivator </span><span style="font-size: large;">of people is feedback on results.” We like to know how we are doing, </span><span style="font-size: large;">and if we are doing well we feel good. The one minute manager has a </span><span style="font-size: large;">plaque on the wall reading: “Take a minute—Look at your goals— </span><span style="font-size: large;">Look at your performance—See if your behavior matches your goals.” </span><span style="font-size: large;">Simple but effective.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The very simplicity of one minute management will deem it suspect in </span><span style="font-size: large;">some people’s eyes, yet it is little more than the application of efficiency </span><span style="font-size: large;">to workplace interpersonal relations. The philosophy of “taking very </span><span style="font-size: large;">little time to get big results” comes from a nuts-and-bolts appreciation </span><span style="font-size: large;">of human nature.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The story’s one minute manager admits that management cannot </span><span style="font-size: large;">always be performed in a minute. It is more a symbol of the idea that </span><span style="font-size: large;">managing people can be much less complicated than we think. There’s </span><span style="font-size: large;">no need for endless sessions to discuss objectives and problems. Some </span><span style="font-size: large;">time needs to be invested in establishing goals, but after that the contact </span><span style="font-size: large;">between boss and subordinate can be minimal.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Clarity about goals saves a huge amount of energy that can be deployed </span><span style="font-size: large;">productively in other areas.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-32795489674785464912014-11-20T01:11:00.000-08:002024-03-16T17:02:00.016-07:00How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling by Frank Bettger<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">Frank Bettger had once been something of a baseball star, playing for the St. Louis Cardinals. An injury to his arm ended his sporting career, and with no particular skills he wound up cycling the streets of his home town, Philadelphia, collecting installments for a furniture company. After two miserable years at this he tried his hand at selling life insurance and fared even worse, deciding that he was “never cut out to be a salesman.” How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling is the account of what he learned to enable his transformation from struggler to the star of his firm.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The conventional wisdom is that you get enthusiastic when you achieve success at something—the feeling comes after the act. But Bettger discovered the truth of Harvard philosopher William James’s</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Success may look fully formed when we behold it with the perspective of years, but those who have achieved it know that it arrived because they made every hour and every moment productive. We are often so fearful of whether or not we can achieve something that we cannot see that if it is broken down into smaller, daily steps it becomes much easier.</span></div>
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<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">The best salespeople do not “sell”—they find out what the other person wants, then help them find the best way to get it.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">When trying to sell something, talk mostly in terms of “you” and “your.” This lets the other person know you are thinking mainly of their interests.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Forget witty conversation—be a good listener instead. </span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Invest in increasing your knowledge of your own industry. You can’t afford not to.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">In contacts with clients, praise your competitors. It shows clients you are even-handed and won’t hide anything from them.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Use “witnesses” (i.e., satisfied clients) to sell your product to new clients. Then you can say, “Don’t listen to me, listen to them.”</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Use a magic question to keep yourself in the presence of a potential client. Ask them: “How did you happen to get into this business, Mr/s…?” The history of a person’s career is always of the highest interest to them.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Prepare for an audience of one as you would an audience of a hundred; i.e., prepare properly for every meeting.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Be like Abraham Lincoln with his famous two-minute Gettysburg Address, and remember that the book of Genesis is only 442 words long—become a “master of brevity.”</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">When you greet someone, say their name.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">For 30 days, smile frequently and watch it transform your life.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Don’t ever engage another person in argument. Instead, ask questions whose answers are likely to bring them round to your viewpoint.</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Every successful person knows how to sell what they offer. Enthusiasm and organization are the basic elements in selling.</span></div>
zuhairahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08255394656883825470noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757930793409282011.post-20803243879677638672014-11-20T00:39:00.000-08:002024-03-16T17:02:12.984-07:00On Becoming a Leader by Warren Bennis<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">On Becoming a Leader provides many fine insights. Perhaps the key </span><span style="font-size: large;">one, and the theme of the book, is this: True leaders are not interested </span><span style="font-size: large;">in proving themselves, they want above all to be able to express themselves </span><span style="font-size: large;">fully. Proving oneself implies a limited or static view of the self, </span><span style="font-size: large;">whereas leaders, by continually seeking their fullest expression, must be </span><span style="font-size: large;">willing to engage in periodic reinvention. For Bennis’s leaders, life is </span><span style="font-size: large;">not a competition but a flowering. Structured education and society </span><span style="font-size: large;">often get in the way of leadership: “What we need to know gets lost in </span><span style="font-size: large;">what we are told we should know.” Real learning is the process of </span><span style="font-size: large;">remembering what is important to you, and becoming a leader is therefore </span><span style="font-size: large;">the act of becoming more and more your true self.</span></div>
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<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Continuous learning and never-dying curiosity.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">A compelling vision: leaders first define their reality (what they </span><span style="font-size: large;">believe is possible), then set about “managing their dream.”</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Developing the ability to communicate that vision and inspire others </span><span style="font-size: large;">to follow it.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Tolerating uncertainty and taking on risk: a degree of daring.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Personal integrity: self-knowledge, candor, maturity, welcoming </span><span style="font-size: large;">criticism.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Being a one-off, an original: “Leaders learn from others, but are not </span><span style="font-size: large;">made by others.”</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Reinvention: to create new things sometimes involves recreating </span><span style="font-size: large;">yourself. You may be influenced by your genes and environment, but </span><span style="font-size: large;">leaders take all their influences and create something unique.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Taking time off to think and reflect, which brings answers and produces </span><span style="font-size: large;">resolutions.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Passion for the promises of life: a belief in the best, for yourself and </span><span style="font-size: large;">others.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Seeing success in small, everyday increments and joys, not waiting </span><span style="font-size: large;">years for the Big Success to arrive.</span></li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;">Using the context of your life, rather than surrendering to it</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: large;">“Faith is the one power against which fear cannot stand. Day by day, as you fill your mind with faith, there will ultimately be no room left for fear. This is the one great fact that no one should forget. Master faith and you will automatically master fear.”</span></div>
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Peale revealed the secret source of energy of every great person he had known: attunement with the infinite. The knowledge that what one is doing is supported outside oneself and is serving a divine end provides a constantly renewable source of energy. Working only by oneself and for oneself leads to burnout.</span> </div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>“Try prayer power”</b><br />
Prayer is different to what you may have thought. It is a space to say whatever is on your mind, in whatever language you choose. Instead of asking for things, give thanks in advance for what you desire, leave it in God’s hands, and visualize the good outcome. The Peale formula is“Prayerize, Picturize, Actualize.” Be surprised at its effectiveness.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Fearful creatures that we are, we tend to expect the worst. But an expectation of the best has a way of organizing forces in your favor. You are less likely to keep anything in reserve. The subconscious, which regulates many of our actions, merely reflects your beliefs. Alter</span> <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">the belief about an outcome and your actions will seem to be shaped in</span> <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">order to achieve it. Peale’s phrase is: “Doubt closes the power flow.</span> <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Faith opens it.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">You can achieve anything if you have faith.</span> </div>
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